How to Save Your Marriage | How To Academy


Mon, 11 April 2022

6:30 pm - 7:30 pm GMT


How to Save Your Marriage

Matthew Fray In Conversation With Hannah MacInnes

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Join us for a thoughtful, humorous, down-to-earth guide to help partners identify and address relationship-killing behaviour patterns.

Good people can be bad partners. One night during his divorce, after one too many vodkas and a phone-in-therapist’s advice to ‘journal his feelings,’ Matthew Fray started a blog. On it, he tried to piece together how his ex-wife went from the college freshman who adored him to the angry woman who loathed him. It turns out that even though he was a decent guy, he was kind of a terrible husband.

Blending raw, uncomfortable, and darkly humorous stories about the lessons he’s learned from his failed marriage with immediately actionable advice to help you identify toxic behaviour patterns in your own relationship, this livestream event with Matthew Fray will help you break out of the cycles of disfunction that ruin relationships.

42% of marriages in the UK end in divorce. Don’t let yours be one of them.

Praise for Matthew Fray’s This Is How Your Marriage Ends:

‘Funny and poignant … a beautiful exposition on partnerships, love, and unpaid labor’ Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author of Fair Play

‘Matt Fray bravely takes us on a tour of the male brain in relationships and how we can become our own worst enemy. By doing so, he reveals why we (men and women) get it wrong so often and what we can do to fix it … This Is How Your Marriage Ends is the book we have been waiting for – an entertaining, honest, and truly practical guide for saving our relationships’ – Justin Baldoni, bestselling author of Man Enough: Undefining My Masculinity

‘An important book! Especially for men (hand raised for leaving dishes by the sink many times) … Matt’s approach is refreshing and much needed in our world. He shines two lights, a black light over why marriages fail but also sunlight by injecting hope and encouraging couples to take ownership’ – John Kim, bestselling author of Single On Purpose


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Matthew Fray

Relationship Coach

Matthew Fray is a relationship coach and writer who leans on the lessons of his failed marriage and divorce to help others avoid making the same mistakes he did. He got divorced because he left dishes by the sink. Fray writes about that and more on his blog Must Be This Tall To Ride.

Hannah MacInnes

Presenter, Podcaster and Host of How To Academy’s live programmes.

Hannah MacInnes is a broadcaster and journalist. Alongside hosting How To Academy’s live programmes and podcast, she presents a cultural show on Times Radio and interviews on-stage at a number of other major literary events. She is the host of The Klosters Forum Podcast series and has written for the Radio Times, the Evening Standard and TLS. Before going freelance she worked for 8 years at BBC Newsnight, as Planning Editor and as a Producer / Filmmaker.